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I had four blazers in a closet I'd stopped opening.They came with us to Panama. Charcoal, navy, two shades of grey, and ...
05/27/2026

I had four blazers in a closet I'd stopped opening.

They came with us to Panama. Charcoal, navy, two shades of grey, and one I cannot explain. Sat in a spare room for the better part of a year. When I finally gave them away, I started doing the math on what they actually cost, not just to buy, but to maintain, transport, and keep as part of a version of myself that no longer existed.

And then I kept going. The car. The restaurants. The memberships. The invisible tax of always looking ready. Run those numbers across a career, and it's a real line item, the kind that never had its own budget category because it was just baked into showing up.

Here's what surprised me most: the financial number wasn't the heaviest part. The heavier weight was the mental overhead. Always calculating. Always performing. Until one day, it stopped. And the quiet that arrived was something I didn't know I was missing.

I wrote about the full accounting and a simple exercise for running your own.

The quiet math of career identity

Four months before we moved to Panama, my wife and I sat in the living room and tried to name everything we wanted to ta...
05/24/2026

Four months before we moved to Panama, my wife and I sat in the living room and tried to name everything we wanted to take with us.

We came up with fifteen things.

Fifteen. After decades in the same house, four bedrooms, a garage, an attic, and closets we hadn't opened in years. When we actually tried to name what mattered, that's what we got.

That afternoon quietly changed how I think about owning anything.

My latest post is about what happened next: the move, the four suitcases, and the box that arrived from the States as a balled-up tape mess with half its contents stolen. We sat with it, then made another list of everything we could remember that was missing. Same result. We couldn't name most of it.

If you've ever wondered whether you actually need what you own, this one might give you an answer you weren't expecting.

We tried to list everything we'd miss. We came up with fifteen things.

The other night, I was watching a 2008 movie called The Visitor, a film about the US immigration system, and ended up as...
05/20/2026

The other night, I was watching a 2008 movie called The Visitor, a film about the US immigration system, and ended up asking Perplexity what it thought about immigration policy.

That question went nowhere, but the conversation didn't end there. Forty-five minutes later, I was deep in a philosophical debate about whether AI is making humanity smarter or dumber.

I hadn't planned on thinking about any of that. I'd planned to watch a movie.

My latest post is about what I've come to believe after sitting with that question: the answer isn't smarter or dumber. It's both, and the variable is entirely how you use it.

I also get into how AI didn't just speed up my writing process, it removed a structural barrier I didn't know was there. As someone with adult ADHD who has been blogging for over a decade, that distinction matters more than I can explain in a Facebook post.

If you use AI and wonder sometimes whether it's helping you grow or quietly making you lazy, this one is for you.

The real question isn’t whether AI makes us smarter or lazier. It’s what we choose to do with the space it creates.

The last report I ever sent to a client went out on a quiet afternoon in Panama City. I had been winding down for months...
05/17/2026

The last report I ever sent to a client went out on a quiet afternoon in Panama City. I had been winding down for months. I expected to feel some grief when it was finally over , 35 years of professional identity, a firm I had built, clients who depended on what I produced.

What I felt instead was freedom. Almost immediately.

What surprised me more was what came next. Within days, the old programming started creeping back in. What's this week's targets? What am I supposed to be producing? My body remembered hustle long after my mind had decided it was done.

My latest post is about that gap, between the moment you decide to stop proving yourself and the moment you actually feel it. And what the Stoics, specifically Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus, understood about that gap that nobody in the productivity space ever talks about.

If you're somewhere in that transition, post-career, post-hustle, or just tired of performing for an audience that may not even be watching anymore, this one's for you.

What becomes possible when you stop keeping score

For months after leaving my career, I kept filling the mornings with systems. A journaling practice. A reading habit. A ...
05/14/2026

For months after leaving my career, I kept filling the mornings with systems. A journaling practice. A reading habit. A list of things to do before anything else. Each one looked like freedom and felt like another job.
What I was missing wasn't a better system. It was the absence of one.
There is something the Stoics understood about mornings that the productivity industry never figured out. Marcus Aurelius wasn't optimizing his day before dawn. He was simply sitting with what was coming, with clear eyes, before the world arrived with its demands. That is a very different thing.
My latest post is about the case for a slower morning. Not a routine. Not a ritual. Just one unscheduled hour that belongs to you before the day takes it.
If you've tried every morning framework and still feel behind by 9am, this one's for you.

How one unscheduled hour changes everything that follows

Most financial advice for people in their 60s assumes the problem is mathematical.Not enough saved. Wrong allocation. Po...
04/29/2026

Most financial advice for people in their 60s assumes the problem is mathematical.
Not enough saved. Wrong allocation. Poor tracking. So it hands you more math.
But here's what I've noticed, in myself and in conversations with people navigating the same terrain: the math is rarely the actual problem.
The actual problem is a feeling that lives underneath the math. A quiet, persistent fear that most people never name directly. The fear of running out.
Not running out of a specific thing. Running out in general. And because it sounds responsible, because it wears the costume of prudence, you never quite look it in the eye.
My newest post is about that fear. Where it comes from, why it hides, and what the Stoics understood about it that most financial advisors don't.
If you've ever made a decision from that place, and most of us have, this one's for you.

It's not about the number. It's about what the number represents.

πŸ’‘ Turn Trash into Treasure! πŸ’‘Are you ready to transform old furniture into something new and profitable? Check out my la...
10/24/2024

πŸ’‘ Turn Trash into Treasure! πŸ’‘
Are you ready to transform old furniture into something new and profitable? Check out my latest post on how to start and succeed with a Furniture Upcycling Business. This practical guide will show you how to reduce waste, create unique pieces, and build a sustainable profit. πŸŒΏπŸ› οΈ

Discover how to start a profitable furniture upcycling business with practical tips for sustainable growth. Learn key strategies for success in the eco-conscious market. Our goal is to share people, places, and things that inspire abundant, healthy & sustainable living.

🌱 Ready to transform your home into a healthier, toxin-free space? My latest post dives into the best air-purifying indo...
10/19/2024

🌱 Ready to transform your home into a healthier, toxin-free space? My latest post dives into the best air-purifying indoor plants! Plus, check out this week's newsletter for sustainable living tips, product picks, and eco-friendly inspiration. Let’s make green living easy, fun, and stylish! 🌿

Discover the top air-purifying indoor plants that not only beautify your space but also improve air quality. These plants are perfect for a healthier, toxin-free home.At Blended Tribes our goal is to share people, places, and things that inspire abundant, healthy & sustainable living. Sustainable, H...

Looking to up your thrift shopping game? My latest post shares expert tips on how to find hidden gems, score unbeatable ...
10/10/2024

Looking to up your thrift shopping game? My latest post shares expert tips on how to find hidden gems, score unbeatable deals, and make eco-friendly choices. Check it out now!

Unlock expert thrift shopping tips to find hidden gems and score unbeatable deals. Learn how to shop smart, reduce waste, and make eco-friendly choices with this ultimate guide. At Blended Tribes our goal is to share people, places, and things that inspire abundant, healthy & sustainable living. Sus...

πŸ’š Ready to declutter while spreading joy? My latest blog post shows you easy ways to donate used toys and make a differe...
09/19/2024

πŸ’š Ready to declutter while spreading joy? My latest blog post shows you easy ways to donate used toys and make a difference in children's lives. 🌟 Learn how you can sustainably give your toys a second life, reduce waste, and bring happiness to those in need! ➑️ [link to blog]

Are you looking for easy ways to donate used toys? Learn how to declutter sustainably while spreading joy to children that are in need with our guide to donating used toys.

🌱 Is your organization ready for transformational change? Boost leadership effectiveness and implement innovative strate...
09/12/2024

🌱 Is your organization ready for transformational change? Boost leadership effectiveness and implement innovative strategies. My latest blog post offers the tools to lead purposefully and successfully. Discover how to take your vision to the next level with proven methods that engage teams that drive lasting change.

Learn how to lead transformational change with proven strategies for success in leadership and innovation. Empower teams, leverage technology, and drive sustainable change for long-term growth.

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