06/05/2026
“Stay focused on what’s important” - Rose’s Journey*
As parents, our instinct is to plan for our children’s futures. With autism, however, you learn quickly that you can’t make plans. When Abram turned 15, I had to fight my wandering thoughts about whether he would drive and what would happen if he did. Will he be safe? Will other drivers be kind to him? Will he be distracted by flashing lights instead of staying focused on the road ahead of him?
As my thoughts spiraled and swirled, I had to refocus them on what’s important. I thought about Abram’s achievements, whether large or small. I recalled the simple, everyday things that have brought me joy, whether it was Abram’s simple act of cleaning up after dinner last night or folding his own laundry.
Autism is a journey, and we never know what’s around the next turn. I have learned to stay focused on the positive and the progress we make every day.
I reflect on Abram’s achievements over the last year, both large and small. I think about the moments we have shared as a family and the joy we have found in the simple, everyday things. As we continue on our autism journey and weather the current situation in our world, I know we will all make it through, one day at a time.
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(NOTE: Stay tuned! Abram is now 21. Can’t wait to hear Rose’s newest stories!)
*Rose Morris is Founder & President of The Safety Sleeper by Abram’s Nation