11/01/2026
Good read.
At what point does our pursuit of correctness start costing us more than it’s worth?
This is something I’ve been thinking and talking about more and more lately.
When you train so many different breeds and temperaments, you start to realize that while correctness is important, it isn’t always the most important part of the learning process.
Sometimes we get so caught up in achieving the “right” behavior that we overlook what it’s costing the dog emotionally.
For some dogs, being wrong is no big deal. It’s important to build resiliency. They bounce back, try again, and never think twice about it. For others, especially our more sensitive or unsure dogs, even dogs starting their hand at sports later in their life, that pressure can slowly chip away at their confidence, enthusiasm, and willingness to try.
I had a student and dog who really changed my perspective on this.
We had been working on teaching the weave poles, and things were going well until the skill started getting harder. As we increased the difficulty, the dog became slower, less enthusiastic, and eventually less willing to even attempt the obstacle. It started to feel like we were never going to get there.
So we took a break.
When we came back, we approached things differently. This time, we rewarded effort. Every attempt was worth celebrating, even if it wasn’t technically correct. When she got it right, we celebrated even more!
And something really interesting happened.
Her joy for learning came back. Quickly.
She started offering behaviors again, engaging with the obstacle, and most importantly, having FUN.
Rewarding those imperfect attempts didn’t prevent her from learning the correct behavior. She was still getting correct repetitions, and gradually those correct repetitions became more frequent. Except this time, she WANTED to weave!
Our sessions were short and upbeat. It felt more like play than training for her (and for us). We left each session with her not tired and maybe not even correct. But she was happy!
Fast forward to today, and that same dog has earned many, many agility Qs, including some at the US Open!
That experience was a pretty big breakthrough moment for me as an instructor and trainer. Since then I have adapted this approach for other dogs as well as my own. Sometimes taking a step back from precision is exactly what allows us to move forward.
It also made me think more about how we respond when our dogs make mistakes.
A frustrated sigh, a change in body language, or immediately stopping the game can communicate more than we realize. Even when we think we’re being neutral, our dogs may be picking up on those little changes.
Mistakes are a beautiful part of the learning process.
Mistakes are information for the dog but for us as trainers, too. They can tell us when our criteria are too difficult, when our dog doesn’t fully understand something, or when we need to change our approach.
How we respond to those mistakes can determine whether our dogs become more willing to try or more worried about being wrong.
Now, this isn’t the approach every dog needs. Some dogs thrive with very clear criteria and are completely unbothered by being wrong. Others need more encouragement and opportunities to build confidence.
The important part is recognizing which dog is standing in front of you and being willing to adjust your training FOR that dog.
We don’t have to abandon criteria or stop striving for precision. We just need to recognize when confidence and enthusiasm should take priority.
Because sometimes, being confidently wrong is a much bigger step forward than being reluctantly right.
Build the love for the game.
📸Sophia Leigh Photography
Written by me then edited with AI - I am the queen of typos