04/16/2026
If you’ve ever felt like your life was falling apart and coming together at the exact same time, this one’s for you.
I spent years building a career in engineering. And somewhere along the way my job title stopped being what I did, it became who I was. It wasn’t until I walked away from a job that was tougher than I needed, threw myself into applications that weren’t landing, and watched the plan look nothing like I thought it would that I was forced to ask myself a question I wasn’t ready for: Who am I without this?
God had to strip it away for me to find out.
The job search was hard. But the identity crisis was harder.
I’m still building. Still applying. Still pushing through. And now more motivated than I have ever been, not because I have a title to show for it, but because I’m learning that my worth was never attached to one.
But please don’t let your job become your whole identity. You are so much more than what you do for a living. I had to learn that the hard way.