Mr Wanjala Benson

01/01/2024

04/10/2023

YOU CAN'T THINK BEYOND YOUR IMAGINATION

A poor man always think the rich man made his wealth out of luck.

And the rich man believes the poor is poor because he is lazy.

A young lady who married very early thinks ladies who are finding it hard to get married have bad character.

A man who just graduated and get a job immediately thinks he is smarter than others.

While a woman who just got married and start giving birth sees "barren" women as people who lived a wayward life.

If only the poor knew the price the rich paid to get to top and if only the rich knows the battles, challenges that the poor is going through, none will ever form a theory about each other.

If the poor can't appreciate the rich man's success let him mind his business if it is easy to be rich he wouldn't have been poor.

And if the rich won't help the poor grow at least they should not kill the spirit of a struggling man.

If only you know what people endure or fight behind the scene you will always thank God for your life. Until you walk in people's shoes, You will never know how hard the journey is.

Help each other grow!!!

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04/10/2023

THE 10 ENEMIES OF LIFE

(1) FEAR
Prevents you from seizing opportunities.

(2) IGNORANCE
Prevents you from making good decisions.

(3) ANGER
Prevents you from seeing clearly.

(4) ENVY
Prevents you from focusing on yourself.

(5) EGO
Prevents you from learning from others.

(6) DOUBT
Prevents you from believing yourself and taking risk to follow your dreams.

(7) HATE
Prevents you from becoming a better person.

(8)) UNFORGIVENES
Prevents you from living as free person.

(9) LYING
Prevents people from trusting you.

(10) PRIDE
Prevents you from seeing and learning from your mistakes.

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04/10/2023

THE IMPORTANCE OF S*X IN YOUR MARRIAGE...✍️

1. S*x is God's gift for the both of you in your marriage. You two would be going against God's desire, not to do it.

2. S*x relieves stress and taking away tension. Yes, it has a way of making you two relax even in the midst of tough times.

3. S*x makes you two create exclusive memories that makes you two bond deeply.

4. S*x is a celebration of your love. It's like a "Thanksgiving party" on the sheets where only two are invited.

5. S*x affirms you two of your love. It reminds you two that you are a couple, that is why married people panic when the frequency dwindles. Some wives even remember the exact day the husband last touched them and wonder what happened.

6. S*x helps you two be vulnerable. As you two strip down to physical nakedness, it will help you two to be emotionally naked with each other.

7. S*x is good for your physical health. As a physical activity, s*x is a good work out, helps your body organs and blood circulation.

8. S*x is a journey of self-discovery and discovery of your spouse. As you two work on s*xually pleasing each other, you will discover new things about yourself and your body and about your spouse and his/her body. This makes you know each other better.

9. S*x allows you two to express your naughty side. We all have naughtiness inside that we hide from the public, s*x with your spouse helps you to release that .

10. S*x brings down walls. As you two have s*x, you will realize that you will also find it easier to talk about difficult conversations and you won't be so guarded because you feel you belong.

11. S*x gives you a glow that reflects on your children, your workmates, friends and the public. People who are s*xed really good tend to be so upbeat, happy and positive.

12. Frequent s*x reduces the power of temptation. When you and your spouse have a healthy s*x life, and you do it frequently, you will be too satisfied to be lured by another

13. S*x helps you two to solve issues. Once you two talk about an issue or you go for days fighting over something then you make up and have s*x, it brings a feeling of closure and togetherness. That is why make up s*x is sweet and passionate.

14. S*x keeps you warm. Nothing warms up your body in a cold season like good s*xing with the one you love.

15. S*x helps you two to bring children to the world. That is why you two look at your child/children with pride and go like "Our pleasure did that"

16. S*x provides an opportunity for you two to feel loved. When you have a spouse whose intent is to make you feel good to the maximum, you will feel really loved

17. S*x is a good way of passing idle time. When you two have free time and are just lazing around, what better way to pass time as adults than making a s*x scene?

18. S*x takes away frustration. There is nothing as frustrating as having a hard on or a wet va**na and throbbing cl****is and no one to attend to it. Blessed are you when you have a spouse who will not let your hardness or wetness go to waste.

19. S*x takes away the need for p**n and ma********on. Why touch yourself, lust after p**n stars when you have the real deal?

20. S*x helps you build up memories to talk about in your retirement years. One day your p***s and va**na will retire, when they do, you two will look back and remember the s*xy things you did.

When you do it this way, it stops being just s*x, it becomes making love. May your marriage have a healthy s*x-life made by you two.

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25/09/2023

SOME THINGS U MOST KNOW BEFORE GETTING MARRIED

1 Laziness kills Marriage 2 Suspicion kills Marriage
3 Lack of trust kills marriage
4 Lack of mutual respect kills marriage
5 Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice and anger kill marriage 6 Arguments kills marriage
7 Keeping Secrets from your Spouse kills marriage
8 Every form of Infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)
9 Poor Communication kills marriage 10 Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.
11 Relating more with your parents/family members than your spouse kills marriage
12 Lack of, inadequate or unenjoyable s*x kills marriage.
13 Nagging kills marriage
14 Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage
15 Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage 16 Being too independent minded kills marriage
17 LOVE for party, money, impulse buying and spending/partying, financial indiscipline kill marriage
18 Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or Siblings kills marriage 19 Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit, not praying together kills not only marriage but your life
20 Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage.
21 Always wearing a sad face and being Moody kills marriage. 22 FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage.
23 MALE CHAUVINISM kills marriage
24 Uncontrolled or hot Temperament, Anger kills marriage.
25 Not understanding your role and position , not taking responsibilty in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage.
26 Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional, financial and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage 27 When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.
28 Lack of the Knowledge of & Obedience to the word of God kills marriage.

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25/09/2023

23 THINGS TO DO TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND UNDER THE
CONTROL OF YOUR LOVE

1. Call him by a pet name

2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.

3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.

4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.

5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you offend him, insist on his forgiveness,appreciate and kiss him when he does.

6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings.

7. Honor his mother

8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be sure that he will do same for your parents

9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no money at hand and never delay his food.

10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to her.

11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.

12. Smile when you look at him and give him occasional pecks when you are out socially.

13. Praise him before your children sometimes.

14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.

15. Put love note in his lunch box or briefcase.

16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.

17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him I love you.

18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be entice by any other woman that day.

19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.

20. Give him a hug for no reason.

21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.

22. Always remember to pray for him.

23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening...

May God bless your marriages. Singles may you experience true love today and forever. May non-serious people that will waste your time be disconnected in your life Amen.