14/08/2025
The Side of Running a Business You Don’t See
You think running a business is about tills. It’s about bullies, cliques, and councillors with cameras in the dark.
Every pound you spend might pay back or have you awake at 3am wondering why you didn’t just get a job on the tools.
I wanted this place to be part of the town’s fabric — more than a till, more than a logo. A laugh, some honesty, something worth reading even if you never buy. The ones who support me? Legends. Salt of the earth. The rest? They pop up for raffle prizes and favours but never spend a penny. Saying no gets easier.
The toll is what people don’t see.
Not the graft — I can handle graft. It’s the politics. The petty cliques. The whispering, the digs, the little power games from people who can’t stand you standing your ground.
My crime? Refusing to be told I couldn’t put a sign on my own pavement. From that day I was fair game: whispers, smirks, people being told to boycott my business. A quiet blacklist.
Then it got ugly. I’d made it public I was in no fit state to work. I'd shredded my ankle in an accident. Pain had kept me awake for three days straight. The shutters were down. Opportunity seized. And there she was — a councillor from the clique, outside my shuttered shop, camera in hand. Caught in 4K. Snooping. Keeping a private dossier.
And what was she photographing?
Not fly-tipping. Not some health hazard.
A single bin bag, left out the night before and due for collection the very next morning.
A broken table, smashed up by vandals — the same vandals who go unchecked in her own ward while she plays detective outside mine.
She lied under FOI. And because councillors are their own data handlers, they can withhold, delete, bury. So it’s FOIs, SARs, ICO complaints. Soon the Ombudsman. Then a human rights lawyer. Because I don’t play.
And here’s the sickness: Redcar & Cleveland Council admit they have no rule against councillors running secret dossiers on residents. None.
Let that sink in.
A reporter’s sniffing. Lawyers are circling. There’s money in this if I want it. But do I? I don’t want courtrooms. I want to sell stock, go home, have tea with my wife. Yet here I am, mentally wrung out because a little clique of fishwives decided I wouldn’t bend the knee.
People tell me: drop it. Save your health. But I can’t. Because if I don’t fight, the next poor sod will suffer it. That’s how freedom is lost — inch by inch, by people who don’t resist.
That’s how you end up with authoritarianism in a cheap trousers suit.
I’ve fought all my life. Against bullies. Against takers. Against those who think they’re above rules.
And I’ll fight this too.
Advice I was given at five years old still rings true.
WIN.