01/02/2025
Is she still paying her own bills, managing everything, and thriving independently while he’s around?
Then what’s the point of him being there? A woman shouldn’t have to struggle in a relationship. She can take care of herself and thrive on her own.
True men step into a woman’s life to elevate her, enhance her, and add undeniable value—not to keep her stagnant or diminish what she’s already built.
If he can’t contribute more to the table, then he has no place at it.
Understand this isn't saying a man should shoulder everything a grown woman is supposed to be doing.
We are all adults, and as adults, we expect everyone to be independent to a certain degree. The whole point is that real men add value to a woman's life.
She bought a new lamp, you helped her mount it. She bought a new side couch 🛋 you helped her assemble it. She has a flat tyre; you change it or call a mechanic.
These are all values a man brings into a woman's life. If she has to pay all her bills and still do all these, you shouldn't be around her life.
Grown women don't ask for much. Grown men add value. Boys parasite. If you can't be used, you're useless. Don't be useless. Be useful
Be guided
